XO ExtraOrdinary
FOR MEMBERS

Everything you need is one page long.

Get the book, download the Companion Workbook, bring a pen, and come. Twelve weeks, five short readings a week from the book, with questions and an assignment for each day.

105 pages · PDF · free

“Transformation is not read. It is done.”

THE TWELVE WEEKS

Three movements, from the inside out.

You will notice the ground shifting under you around Week 5, and again around Week 9. That is by design.

Weeks 1–4

Renewing the Mind — a biblical foundation, how the brain actually changes, and how habits are broken and built.

Weeks 5–8

Regulating the Body — emotional intelligence, stress, the chemistry of joy, and fear turned from captor into counsel.

Weeks 9–12

Restoring the Soul — forgiveness, shame, dreaming again, and the anchoring of the soul that carries all of it.

YOUR EVENING

Ninety minutes, in two halves.

The first thirty minutes are not a warm-up — they are part of the work.

20 min · A shared meal

Unhurried. No agenda, no teaching — this is where the group becomes a group.

5 min · A worship song

Lyrics on screen. One song, sung together.

5 min · Recap

Last week in three sentences, then the honest question: how did it go?

60 min · Teaching

The week framed, the five days walked through, questions worked aloud, and a landing.

Between meetings: five short readings from the book, one a day, five to eight minutes each — with that day's questions and assignment, answered in writing. Something happens when a vague thought is forced into a sentence, and that is most of what the workbook is for.

FOUR COMMITMENTS

What the group owes each other.

Your group will name these in Week 1, and again before Weeks 9 and 10, where the material turns personal.

Confidentiality

What is said here stays here.

No fixing

“Thank you for telling us that” beats advice.

Freedom to pass

Nobody must answer anything.

Attendance is a gift

The group depends on you.

A word about Weeks 9 and 10: forgiveness and shame are the two weeks people most often go quiet in. If something surfaces that is bigger than a group conversation, tell your leader — that is not a failure of the process, it is the process working.

The book is required.

You will need your own copy of XO ExtraOrdinary to take this course. Every day in the workbook sends you to a specific day's reading in the book, and the questions and assignments assume you have done it. The Big Idea that opens each week reminds you what you read — it does not replace it.

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Both editions are the same book, published August 2026 by Gotell Communications USA.

Bring a pen.

Bring the book, the workbook and a pen. Come to Week 1 having read Day One and written your answers.